The Questions Behind the Question

Today I met with a student who will graduate this May, and is trying to figure out what to do after college. A fairly frequent scenario. Like many seniors, the most pressing question in this student's mind was, "What should I do?!?!" It's easy to get a bit frustrated when God does not make the answer as plain as day, and quickly. Students get frustrated, and so do I as someone who wants desperately to say something helpful.

What I'm realizing, though, is that the seeming delay and silence on God's part often bring other questions to the surface, such as: How do I even hear God's voice? How does He guide me? What am I really passionate about? What are my gifts? Where am I being invited to trust Him? What fears are acting as barriers in my life?

I suppose God could dole out guidance and specific direction more liberally if He wanted. He'd certainly have fewer graduating seniors shaking their fists at Him! But He is always wanting to draw us into a deeper intimacy with Him, revealing truths and mysteries about how He has made us, and how we can know Him better.

That said, I'm learning that I can be more helpful if I resist the urge to simply give good career advice, but to help students press deeper into the invitations that God extends during times of decision. The senior I met with today left our time with a renewed eagerness to know God personally, to hear His voice, to be free of her fears, and to become a person who knows better how she has been uniquely created to bless the world. If she gets all that, a little career advice just sounds like icing on the cake!

Maturity?

Last week, we spent 48 hours with the other InterVarsity Area Directors in New England on a "spiritual formation" retreat. These times are immensely valuable to us in our ministry. As we call students to transformation, God does the same to us.

My major "a-ha" moment this past retreat was realizing my underlying belief that as I gain more experience and our ministry grows, I ought to be better able to "figure things out", to have more know-how and competency out of which to operate. That seems harmless enough at first glance, and is largely how the world operates.

But the underlying harm in this is believing that I should somehow need God less as time goes on, when in fact the very opposite is true. As our ministry grows and impacts more and more lives, I need more wisdom, more love, more power from God than I ever have before!

So often "maturity" is defined by becoming less needy and more independent. But in the case of spiritual life and leadership, I'm starting to realize that maturity means a deeper dependence and embrace of just how much I need from Jesus, apart from whom I can do nothing.

-Paul